Just got me to thinking though, it isn't about the food as much as the feelings we have when we sit down to something made with love by mom or grandma. And the sharing a meal with the ones we love, isn't that the best feeling? No matter how much fun is put into our dys"fun"ctional families, we wouldn't trade it for anything.Now that my parents have both passed on, sometimes the holidays get a little emotional. I am trying to recreate some of those things, as well as make our own family traditions. It does get difficult though when two married people have totally different traditions, I just make mine to bring and share and hopefully everyone will enjoy them and we can start a new better tradition.
Our new traditions starting this year will be a vegan thanksgiving. I am thankful that we do have so many options for our food choices and the resources to be able to have what we want.
So... what will we be having? For starters, in place of the turkey ( which I have also been thinking about, why do those of us who are vegetarians have to replace the real thing? It will never be exactly the same, and sometimes we are only substituting something lesser to satisfy some sort of need - kind of like our relationship with God- which I won't get into right now, but something to think about even if you aren't looking for ways to have a thanksgiving meal without meat or dairy.)
So, I have been a busy girl this week preparing food to be able to take to our meals we have been invited to, not just for myself (which of course if I want to eat I should bring something, I cannot expect others to cater to me) but also I hope to turn others onto delicious new things that are better and healthier for them. Prompting them to maybe make a small change in a positive direction, even if it's just a side dish along with the turkey ;)
So, on our menu this year will be:
Caramel Apple Sweet Potato Casserole
Green Bean Casserole (of course- but with a twist , I personally think it's yummier)
I admit I cheated on my stuffing though- I bought a bag of organic vegan stuffing mix with cranberries at Whole Foods... it is way good and I will definitely buy it again.
Opted out on the tofurky this year, and bought (once again at Whole Foods) a savory stuffed "turkey breast" from Gardein (which I have had their stuff before so it will probably be yummy) it has stuffing inside already and a little packet of gravy for each breast in the package
Creamed peas and pearl onions
Making a delicious pumpkin bread for dessert
and we also made squash rolls ( which I obtained from Jeremy's aunt who makes them every year, I just substituted non-dairy milk and no butter , boy are they good!)
So I won't be missing out on anything at all, after all, like I said before , the focus should not be on the food as much but on the people and the blessings of God around us. Every day not just once a year.
I would love to hear your traditions, your special things that you love to partake in on the holiday that make it special too. I wish you all the many abundant blessings of God for you and your families. Enjoy each other, enjoy every moment together, take time to relax!
Here is one of the recipes if you want to give it a try, I will post the rest later on.